prior to this little experiment of mine... My age range for dating was 30+ ...
if someone my age or younger was interested in dating me, I wanted notning to do with it.
So you can imagine how pleasantly uncomfortable it made me when a 23-year-old asked me for my number.. And I smiled and begrudgingly gave it out!!
because WHY NOT!
im not gonna lie it didn't feel natural. I knew I was fighting my mind that was saying "Tanya, what are you doing with a 23-year-old... He doesn't even know who he is yet... He doesn't even know what he wants... Don't waste your time..."
but I pushed alll that noise to the side and did what I needed to do...
and it felt GREAT!
Now I know this sounds super lame to some of you out there, but for me this was a big step.