Tanya Rad

Single Behavior

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So I did it! I became THAT girl… and I don’t even know how it happened…

 

After you get out of a long-term relationship the HARDEST thing to do is to re-train to do things alone……

 

That first wedding dateless… is just BRUTAL..

That first work holiday party…. With no one…. is a dagger….

Those weekends without plans feel like eternity…. you actually can’t wait to get back to work on Monday…

 

((Trust me… I’ve been there! Done that! …AND SOME!))

 

I hated the feeling of not having a partner in crime… I hated doing things by myself…. I hated always flying solo

All I wanted was to get into another relationship!!!!

But…. 

Sure enough…

I not only managed to get accustomed to doing things alone …. I have created some SERIOUS single-girl-habits ….

Every Friday night I like to unwind… clean my makeup brushes… give myself a facial… and catch up on all my TV shows from the week…

I’ve actually had guys ask me out on a Friday night and I say I have plans …

(They don’t need to know my plans consist of MAC brush cleaner, exfoliating scrubs, and some ‘Chasing Life’ episodes… ) 

I quickly realized that getting accustomed to single habits … is just as dangerous (if not more) than getting used to always being a duo!

I guess the first step is realizing there is a problem… Now I’m moving to phase 2… TAKING ACTION!